Thursday, February 12, 2009

Marley

Thanks, Joanna, for getting the discussion rolling. I'm not a dog person either but I figured that this book would make me laugh and cry and I love books that move me in some way. My main sentiment at first when I read about Marley's destruction, particularly to the house, was, "I'd KILL that dog!" I mean seriously, I can't even imagine dog boogers all over my walls and lampshades. But then I stepped away from that and realized the endless amounts of laughter and entertainment Marley must have provided the Grogans. My favorite parts of this book - my laugh-out loud moments - were when John described kissing Marley while thinking it was his wife...and then taking him the next day to get fixed, and sledding down the hill with Marley laying on top of him. I cried when I read about Marley dragging himself from to tree after tree in his old age looking for just the right place to pee.

I was grateful that their next dog was more calm, touched by the memories Marley left behind and inspired by the things he taught his owners: live each day with "unbridled exuberance and joy," seize the moment, follow your heart, appreciate the simple things, be optimistic in the face of adversity and unwavering loyalty. Those kinds of lessons are true gifts whenever and however they come.

My Thoughts on Marley

I'm assuming everyone has finished the book so I thought I'd get the ball rolling on everyone's thoughts. When I first heard about the book I immediately thought about the movie and I was a little hesitant because it wasn't a movie I was too interested in seeing. I then remembered seeing Grogan on the Today Show a few years ago and liking his story and was interested in reading the book. After remembering that I was excited to read the book and had a hard time putting it down whenever I picked it up. At first I wasn't sure I'd like it because I'm not too much of a dog person but I realized in the end that it wasn't really a book about his dog. Instead he used his dog to tell his memoirs. I love reading memoirs and so I loved this book. I loved how he made Marley into a person too. It was fun when he would speak for Marley and how he showed Marley's personality throughout the book. One part I really liked was at the end of the book where he made a list of things that Marley taught him. I can't remember the specifics (and I don't have the book anymore) but I know it was a good list. It was fun to watch Marley grow with the family and to see what they were all learning and growing through together. I think that Grogan and his wife matured along with Marley. They all started out young and carefree and grew older and wiser together through different life experiences. So there's my jumbled thoughts. What did you think?

Sunday, February 8, 2009

"The Mayflower: A Story of Courage, Community, and War" by Nathaniel Philbrick

Sorry I've been slow to post February's book, I've been a little sidetracked I guess.

I love history and am always drawn to non-fiction more than fiction. With that in mind, I'm hoping this isn't a terrible pick for everyone else. I thought it looked interesting...






From The Washington Post: Few periods in American history are as clouded in mythology and romantic fantasy as the Pilgrim settlement of New England. The Mayflower, Plymouth Rock, the first Thanksgiving, Miles Standish, John Alden and Priscilla ("Speak for yourself, John") Mullins -- this is the stuff of legend, and we have thrilled to it for generations. Among many other things, it is what Nathaniel Philbrick calls "a restorative myth of national origins," one that encourages us in the conviction that we are a nation uniquely blessed by God and that we have reached a level of righteousness unattained by any other country.
It is a comforting mythology, but it has little basis in fact. The voyage of the Mayflower was a painful and fatal (one crew member died) transatlantic passage by people who knew nothing about the sea and had "almost no relevant experience when it came to carving a settlement out of the American wilderness." Wherever they first set foot on the American continent, it wasn't Plymouth, and it certainly wasn't Plymouth Rock. The first Thanksgiving (in 1621) was indeed attended by Indians as well as Pilgrims, but they didn't sit at the tidy table depicted in Victorian popular art; they "stood, squatted, or sat on the ground as they clustered around outdoor fires, where the deer and birds turned on wooden spits and where pottages -- stews into which varieties of meats and vegetables were thrown -- simmered invitingly." As for Priscilla Mullins, John Alden and Miles Standish, that tale is nothing more than a product of the imagination of Henry Wadsworth Longfellow.
These cherished myths, in other words, bear approximately as much resemblance to reality as does, say, the story of George Washington and the cherry tree. In Mayflower, his study of the Pilgrim settlement, Philbrick dispatches them in a few paragraphs. It takes considerably longer, and requires vastly more detail, for him to get closer to the truth about relations between the Pilgrims and the Indians. Popular mythology tends to focus on Massasoit, the chief of the Pokanokets who allied his tribe with the English settlers, and Squanto, the English-speaking Indian who formed a close, mutually rewarding friendship with William Bradford, governor of Plymouth Plantation for three decades. Some of what that mythology tells us is indeed true, but as Philbrick is at pains to demonstrate, the full truth is vastly more complicated.





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